In most families, there are more or less quarrels in marriage. But excessive quarrels or arguments increase bitterness between husband and wife. It also affects the relationship. How to handle your spouse’s anger, find out ways to reduce disputes.
Your spouse can be irritable, bad-tempered. But remember that everyone has a limit. Your spouse can scold you in extreme anger. Many even raise their hands on you. Do not accept this behavior. Do not let its bad effect on you. But do not quarrel with him immediately.
– When your husband or wife is angry, do not lose your temper. Then the situation will get out of hand. Keep a cool head at that time. Later, when the situation calms down, explain. Try to remain silent if you are hot-headed. Then inaudible scolding will not come out of your mouth. Not reacting or not reacting is a strategy to reduce quarrels.
– When someone is angry, do not take that situation as their character. Do not take it as a personal insult. Then the situation will calm down quickly. Do not bring up old wounds, old insults in words. Do not bring up old topics during an argument. Do not forget the matter. When the situation cools down, talk calmly.
– Do not forget to thank your partner if necessary. If you are wrong, admit your mistake. Then a quarrel situation will not arise. If necessary, counseling should be done. If necessary, you must take the help of a psychiatrist.
